Answer this: Is doing something you do not want to do for someone else a kind deed? Or, is it something unkind you do for yourself? Hmmmmm.
As I pondered this question I didn’t know the answer at first. I can do something kind for someone else but if it is at my own expense, it just might not be a kind deed. Sure, it is kind for that person so that definitely counts. I pondered about it a little longer. I then came to the realization that if I am doing the kind deed from my heart, it is certainly a kind deed for both. If I chose to do it because I “should” all over myself, then that would not really be a kind deed, at least not in the true sense of giving and receiving.
So there you have it. Do kindness with your heart and everyone wins!
Peace and kindness,